So you're at the parking hanging with your besties. There a group of cute boys hanging near the swing set near by. One of the boys catches you eye and motions to you to walk over to him. What do you do?
1. Go over alone and talk to him
2. Go over with your girls and talk to him
3. Ignore him
4. Politely smile or wave
4. Ask him to come over to you
The correct answer is number 4 or 5. Never go over to some random boy calling to you either alone or with your friends. You don't have to ignore him. No need to be rude. If you would like to talk to him, let him come over to you. He's the one showing interest. Don't give him control by walking over there. Show him you're a young lady who is to be respected. Not some silly girl who simply will come when called.
You start out on a bad foot when you go running to some random boy that says "Hey" or "pssst" to get your attention. And do not give out your number. Take his. You control what's going on, not him.
If your parents do not permit you to talk to boy then smile politely and wave. He'll most likely stay on the swings talking to his boys. If he does come over let him know you are not interested. You were being polite.
